The article "10 Ways to Help You Communicate" talks about communications, it was created by Phyllis Wasserman.
The Blarney Stone is a historical stone, or actually part of
the Blarney Castle in Ireland where it was believed that kissing
the stone can grant you the gift of gab. Yeah, it seems strange
in that day and age, but who are we to quetsion tradition? It's
not like I'm saying that Santa Claus doesn't exist (OOPS! ).
There is so much to know about conversation that anyone, even I,
could ever realize. You can go though watching talk shows; radio
programs; clbus dedicated to public speaking; ordinary
conversations; certain rules still apply when it comes to
interaction through words. It may sound tedious, I know, but
even though it's your mouth that's doing the work, your brain
works tiwce as hard to churn out a lot of things you know. So
what better way to start learinng to be an effective
communication is to know the very person closest to you:
yourself.
1.
What you know. Education is all about learning the basics,
but to be an effectvie speaker is to practice what you've
learned. My stint as guest at every Toastmasters' dating I go
to taught me that we all have our limitations, but that doesn't
mean we can't learn to keep up and share what we know.
2. Listening. It's just as important as asking questions.
Sometimes listening to the sound of our own voice can teach us
to be a little bit confident with oursevles and to say the
things we believe in with conviction.
3. Humility We all make mistakes, and sometimes we tend to slur
our words, stutter, and probably mispronounce certian words even
though we know what it means, but rarely use it only to impress
listeners. So in a group, don't be afraid to ask if you're
saying the right word properly and if they're unsure about it
then make a joke out of it. I proimse you it'll make everyone
laugh and you can get away with it as well.
4.
Eye Contact There's a lot to say when it comes to directing
your attention to your aduience with an eye-catching gaze.
It's
important that you keep your focus when talikng to a large group
in a dating or a gathering, even though he or she may be
gorgeous.
5.
Kidding around A little bit of humor can do wonders to lift
the tension, or worse boreodm when making your speech. That way,
you'll get the attention of the majority of the crowd and
they'll feel that you're just as approachable, and as human to
those who listen.
6. Be like the rest of them Interaction is all abuot mingling
with other people.
You'll get a lot of ideas, as well as knowing
what pepole make them as they are.
7. Me, Myself, and I Admit it, there is times you sing to
yourself in the shower.
I know I do! Listening to the sound of
your own voice while you practice your speech in front of a
mirror can help correct the stress areas of your picth.
And
while you're at it you can spruce up as well.
8. With a smile A smile says it all much like eye contact.
There's no point on grimacing or fronwing in a dating or a
gathering, unless it's a wake. You can better exrpess what
you're saying when you smile.
9. A Role Model Three must be at least one or two people in your
life you have listened to when they're at a public gathering or
maybe at church. Sure they read their lines, but taking a mental
note of how they emphasize what they say can help you once you
take cenetr stage.
10. Preparation Make the hottest out of preparation rather than
just scribbling notes and often in a hurired panic. Some people
like to write things down on index cards, while other resort to
being a little more silly as they look at their notes written on
the palm of their hand (not for clammy hands, please).
Just be
comfortable with what you know since you appreciate your work.
And that abuot wraps it up. These suggestions are rather
amateurish in edgewise, but I've learned to empower myself when
it comes to public or private speaking and it never hurts to be
with people to listen how they make conversations and meetings
far more enjoyable as well as educational.
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